Taking Care of Yourself


 

” We have the power to begin the world over again.”   —Thomas Paine

Creative people do tend to suffer from depression more than the remainder of the population.  There are ways to cope with depression.  Creating new works and then receiving acknowledgement for that work is one of the best ways for a creative soul to deal with depression.
I have written, many times, about the importance of finding meaning in our lives, and since many of us are writing blogs, it is safe to say that we all have some creativity within us.

 

If you suffer from depression, there is help.  Every city, every state and nearly every country has at least one suicide hotline.

If you are in treatment, and find that this is not helping, you can make a change.  Find a new therapist or doctor.  Don’t give up.

 

In time, the medical community will find a way to treat this chronic disease so that you can live with it, without being in pain and suffering every day.

 

As a sufferer of clinical depression which is, in my case, both genetic and the result of trauma, I can tell you that I have been working since I was a child to combat this disease.  I have used therapy, medication, and alternative treatments such as meditation, and I will say that I am, for the most part, doing fairly well.  There are bad days, but fewer than before.

 

Just as a diabetic suffers with their disease and must keep an eye on blood levels and take the prescribed medication, so do people with depression or any mental health issue have to keep an eye on their emotional state and, in many cases, stay on medication.  Part of this is knowing how and when to stay away from the toxic people in your life.

 

I want to say that  there is no shame in depression or other forms of mental illness. If you are depressed and there are people in your life who put you down or judge you for this, you have to know that this is their issue and not yours.  Depression is a disease.  The best way to answer the people who attack or belittle you is to function to your very best ability every day.  If there is a day when you cannot, or if you can function a little less well, that’s all right.  Curing or even treating any disease is a process, and as anyone who suffers from chronic illness knows, there is a point of pride from making it through the hard days, the bad days.

 

If you feel that you are beyond help, if you feel that you cannot go on, DON’T GIVE UP.  There IS a way.  It might take some time to find it for you, but there is a way.

 

Sometimes, all it takes is a reason to smile, and the realization that sometimes you have to decide to think about the good in your life, the things you can be grateful for.  An exercise that many people use is to start a journal, and list 5 things, each day, that you are grateful for:  the rain in your garden; the mail brought you no bills and a card from a dear friend; the clouds are making interesting shapes; the sun peaked out for 5 minutes on a grey day.    A gratitude journal, kept near you, can help remind you of what is good in your life, the things you have been grateful for in the past, and can perhaps remember to be grateful for again.

 

 

 

Michelle Walling, CHLC – Beyond Science – How to Talk to Your DNA


Higher Density Blog's avatarHigher Density Blog

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by Michelle Walling, CHLC

Our DNA holds the secrets of immortality and wellness. Within it lies the wisdom of not only our genetic ancestors but our past and future life experiences as well. We have been told that we will be activating ten strands of dormant ‘junk’ DNA that are overlaid in the two active strands of DNA that we currently operate with. How can we activate this extra DNA in order to access the wisdom needed to move forward?

What is DNA?

DNA lies in the nucleus of each cell in our body except for red blood cells. The blood in the body carries DNA but only in the white blood cells of the blood since red blood cells do not have nuclei. The instructions for the blueprint of our human body is replicated in full in each nucleus. In essence our body is one large hologram with each…

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If you need help…


Automattic Special Projects's avatarThe Bloggess

If you are considering suicide or know someone who is, please call a suicide hotline.  They can help.  They’re free.  They’ve saved and helped so many of us, including me.  Click here for a link to suicide crisis organizations around the world.  They listen.

I find it very triggering to talk about a humorist who has lost his battle with mental illness so I’m not going to write about this.   I’m practicing self-care by making an appointment with my therapist and avoiding triggers and watching bad tv.  I was, however, asked by a lot of people if I would share the post I once wrote about how the full moon makes me feel unbalanced and more willing to believe the lies that depression tells, and considering we’re dealing with a super-moon right now then maybe reading it will help if you’re feeling vulnerable yourself.  So it’s here…

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How I’m Going To Start Meditating


Optimistic Kid's avatarOptimistic Kid

After reading The Dharma Bums for the second time.  I got convinced that is time for me to start meditating.  I have read plenty of posts about meditation and they are all positive.  So I did what every person in the 21st century would do when it comes to finding information on how to start.  I loaded a Goggle page and typed “how to start meditating”.  Like you can imagine I found a ton of different information about it.  From a guy who said to start by meditating an hour a day and move up to three hours a day.  Three hours???  Okay, I don’t want to meditate for that long.  I don’t think I have the time to meditate for three hours a day.  If I do, I wont do it.  I’m looking for an hour max a day.  So I decided to take some of his advice and…

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How I’m Going To Start Meditating


Optimistic Kid's avatarOptimistic Kid

After reading The Dharma Bums for the second time.  I got convinced that is time for me to start meditating.  I have read plenty of posts about meditation and they are all positive.  So I did what every person in the 21st century would do when it comes to finding information on how to start.  I loaded a Goggle page and typed “how to start meditating”.  Like you can imagine I found a ton of different information about it.  From a guy who said to start by meditating an hour a day and move up to three hours a day.  Three hours???  Okay, I don’t want to meditate for that long.  I don’t think I have the time to meditate for three hours a day.  If I do, I wont do it.  I’m looking for an hour max a day.  So I decided to take some of his advice and…

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Picture Prompt – Close your eyes


ryanlukethacker's avatarPunk Monk

Tree Frame by missarissalynn

Close your eyes

Slide between the covers and crash into your pillow
close your eyes
breathe, and open
you are in the woods
you heard the birds before you opened your eyes
now you can smell the bark, damp from fresh rainfall
close, breathe, open
you’re in the rain somewhere else in the forest
your clothes are sodden, you know you have been here for a long time
hold out your palms and cup them
catch water
close your eyes
the rain has stopped
breathe in, deep
open
you are underwater
swim upwards
break the surface
breathe
taste spring water
float
close
breathe

sleep.

Image by missarissalynn

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Trouble in Hummerville!


Unknown's avatarCindy Knoke

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The bees have swarmed the hummer’s feeders!
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We have massive annual swarms of honeybees and lots of bees year round at The Holler. There are many flowers and orchards to keep all the pollinators happy. We want to provide a safe haven for bee populations which are in decline and for hummingbirds as well.
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But the hummers are not the least bit happy with the bees taking over their feeders. The bees go after the hummers, and can sting them.
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I have to cover up as much as possible to take photos of the action. Of course I covered up with a blue jacket and hood, not knowing bees were specifically attracted to blue, and the bees came after me! It probably would have been better if I had researched this first.
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I haven’t seen a bee sting a hummingbird but the hummingbirds are definitely afraid of them.
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The feeders…

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