Real Men Don’t Hurt Women


Man lynched for raping assistant chief’s daughter
01 November 2013, 19:29
Dareel Eric

Vihiga – A rape suspect was lynched on Thursday by an angry mob at Chavakali market in Sabatia Constituency, Vihiga County.

The man was suspected to have broken into the Walodeya sub-location assistant chief’s home, with three others, and raped the chief’s 6-year-old daughter in a nearby maize plantation.

Sabatia sub-County commissioner, Joseph Kanyiri, said that the gang had attacked the assistant chief, Hesbon Munavo, on Thursday at around midnight and stole a few items before raping the minor.

“The gang went into hiding immediately after the act, which prompted the angry residents to hunt for them, before getting hold of the one, who was lynched,” Kanyiri said.

The minor has since been admitted at Vihiga Hospital nursing serious injuries, but responding to medication positively.

The three other suspects were later arrested and salvaged from the angry mob by police who have detained them, pending investigations into their case, before being arraigned in court on Monday.

Cases of insecurity have been rife in the region, with the area MP, Alfred Agoi, sending stern warning to the groups of people who attack innocent residents at night, that if arrested, they will face stern punishments.

“The people who roam at night breaking into other peoples’ houses, stealing and injuring them will not be tolerated in Sabatia if they are arrested. We ask the government to impose sterner penalties for them,” he said.

The body of the one who was lynched was taken to Vihiga Hospital mortuary.

—–I excerpted this from Kenya news

This story has upset me a lot. First a six year old little girl was raped. I don’t know if people understand what that meant for the little girl. Anatomically, her little body wasn’t developed enough to have something that large into it.  It is painful, frightening and quite horrible for the child. The child at six, probably can’t scream loud enough if no one was in the house. She had to have felt helpless and she might not be able to have children depending on everything that was done to her. She was in her own home. Her father was the chief and the perpetrator broke in. This is a case of pedophilia and rape. This female was not dressing provocative or sexily or in a place she shouldn’t have been.

Rape happens here and it happens in every country around the world. Why? Because a great many men do not respect women. In China girls are given away or aborted. I have many friends who have adopted Chinese girls and one boy. He was found under a shrub. He had two sets of genitals and that is not to be tolerated. It is a miracle that he ended up in an orphanage. My friend’s sister fell in love with him as soon as she saw him.  She adopted him and brought him back to America. With therapy and time, he has decided he is a boy. So that is what he is and with surgeries, it will be what he is.

I heard a male today say, “Why should I pay for a woman’s contraception and pap tests?”. Well why should we pay for their Viagra. Many men hate women. They want a woman to cook, clean, give them sex  and keep the children quiet. There are these men in every country. We need not to lie down and take it. That was also part of the conversation I was overhearing between two men. We need to be proud to be women. We need to be confident. If you have survived tragedy, get help. We must stand up and we must not let them push us back down. Not all men hate women. There are many feminist men and they are a joy to spend time with.

We need to increase the laws to protect women and children. We need to make sure that all of the laws to protect us are enforced. We need to bond together and fight the hatred today and every day.  And a man who rapes a child needs to be put in a penal colony in Antartica. I know this is a radical thought, but sexual offenders cannot be cured and they need to suffer.

For the little girl in Kenya and all of the other ones who are being raped, I ask for your prayers and if a child comes to you with a story of bad touches or rape: believe the child. The child  is more important than any man in your life destroying your child. Your child needs your love and support. Stand by your children at all costs.

Real men don't rape

Real men don’t rape

This is your opportunity to stop this subjection and ownership of the female gender

This is your opportunity to stop this subjection and ownership of the female gender

This is the way real men feel about women. Men were never to act like wild animals.

because I met…


This is my favorite. It feels like a song to me. Hugs, Barbara

hitandrun1964's avatarRethinking Life

my
true
love
when
I
was
fourteen
I
never
grew
old
I
never
lost
the
youthful
excitement
and
joy
I
had
for
life
because
my
hand
was
always
tightly
held
in
his
and
I
only
had
to
turn
my
head
to
look
into
the
face
of
love

but
then
his
hand
slipped
from
mine
into
Death’s
and
my
mirror
shattered
the
spell
was
broken
and
I
watched
helplessly
as
my
youth
bleed
out
in
front
of
me
leaving
behind
only
shards
of
glass
and
dust

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NSA has broken into Google, Yahoo data centers and now monitors all web searches, Gmail


I am not comfortable with this. In peace, Barbara

Award


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Thank you Dr. Rex for nominating me for this award.  I have found Dr Rex’s blog to be inspiring and informative and that this lovely woman thinks so much of my blog fills me with great pride.

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Rules to this Award:

Display the Award on your Blog.
Announce your win with a post and thank the Blogger who awarded you.
Present 8 deserving Bloggers with the Award.
Link your awardees in the post and let them know of their being awarded with a comment.
Write a word or phrase about yourself for each letter of the Alphabet.

I must use a letter of the Alphabet to say something about myself, here goes…..

  1. Artsy…looking to express my creative energies
  2. Bored easily…so I keep my mind moving
  3. Chattering…loves to talk
  4. Dreamer…other worlds
  5. Exciting…this journey is exciting to me
  6. Freedom…remember the old Eagles song Desperado?
  7. Goofy…I can dissolve into giggles
  8. Human…I don’t expect people to be more human than I am
  9. Instigator …it is the ability to stir things up a bit…just a bit
  10. Knowing ….an ability to sometimes know what is going to happen
  11. Likeable…others like to hang out with me
  12. Musical …. I love jazz, classic rock, reggae, blues, classical, zydeco
  13. Nurturing …a Taurus thing
  14. Orderly ….. everything has a place where it lives and it needs to be there
  15. Private …how much I reveal is equal to the amount of trust I have for someone
  16. Quiet … as I get older, I am quieter
  17. Reasonable…explain it to me reasonably and I will work with you
  18. Sexy ……in the day, well a few of them. LOL
  19. Tenacious…don’t give up; it is part of the Taurus thing
  20. Universal … I am a child of the Universe
  21. Vital…every moment needs to be vital
  22. Woman…I love being a woman
  23. eXpressive…my mind is always going and so is my mouth
  24. Youthful…outside I am 63 but inside I am 30
  25. zany…I will try anything once

I now nominate 8 people with this Award:

  1. heartafire
  2. inavukic
  3. lenwilliamcarver
  4. nodz
  5. jackie saulmon Ramirez
  6. michelle marie antell
  7. reachingutopia
  8. Cauldron & Cupcakes
  9. europasicewolf
  10. Juiseppi B
  11. Petrel41
  12. Jem Farmer
  13. Hit & Run 1964
  14. ElenaCaravela
  15. FutherKane

Please, kindly accept this award.

If you can’t, pass it forward to other bloggers that you think deserve this.

… ABC Award …

Awesome Blog Content Award!!

Presque Isle


In my home town, we have Presque Isle gives us 5 miles of pristine beach

In my home town, we have Presque Isle which gives us 5 miles of pristine beach

lifeguard stand

Animals, birds, and humans all love the Penninsula

Animals, birds, and humans all love the Penninsula

The dock, Dobbins Landing

The dock, Dobbins Landing

 

 

 

All photography taken and copyrighted by Barbara Mattio  2002

The beach is on one side of the Penninsula and the other is the bay.

The beach is on one side of the Penninsula and the other is the bay.

I grew up in a relatively small home. But when I was growing up we were a tourist spot. The penninsula provided swimming, boating, water skiing, and walking in the woods and finding deer. We cross country skied there. Erie is small and it is not a rich city, but I will tell you that you can’t find better, nicer or friendlier people anywhere. Most of my friends have moved out and around the country. We still keep in touch. I hope you enjoyed your tour.

Sentencing Abuse Alleged By Judge, With Superior Court Judge Eugene Hyman, Santa Clara, California


sentencing errors.

socialaction2014's avatarSocial Action 2014

Sentencing Abuse Alleged By Judge, With Superior Court Judge Eugene Hyman, Santa Clara, California

Retired Superior Court Judge Eugene Hyman, of Santa Clara, California, talks with The Family Law Channel about the sentencing abuse allegations made by a federal judge.

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