it seems to me that today, we are all expected to BECOME.  We strive to BECOME rich, successful, happy, young,  thin,  carb-less, important, famous, beautiful…well, the list is never-ending, but you know what I mean.  It’s as if who and what we are, is no longer enough.  We are told, by the media and by those around us, that we should never stop BECOMING.  The funny thing is: once we finish one list, another one magically appears…because the truth of the matter is; there’s always another list.  A lot of us don’t even realize that while we are busy putting all of our energy into BECOMING, we aren’t  living in the present moment and are, in fact,  missing out on our everyday lives.
Sometimes we are so involved in BECOMING that we don’t recognize the fact that we have actually BECOME the thing we hoped to be.  Relationships fade and…