It is One Thing to Believe in Sacrifices


It is one thing to believe in sacrifices, it is quite another to live with them. In the sixties, we didn’t get that and when guys came home from the Vietnam War, we ignored them or yelled at them. We wanted to make them feel ashamed for fighting what we perceived as an illegal war. It  was illegal, but that wasn’t the fault of the soldiers or us, the government will forever carry the responsibility. It took me and many others a long time to get it.

 

My ah-ha moment was on a date. He was a Vietnam veteran. He was the only military person I ever dated. We were watching China Beach. I always watched China Beach. He asked me if I would let him tell me about his experience in Vietnam. No, was what I wanted to say, But, something made me say Ok. Not enthusiastic, but I committed myself and I sat and listened. I will not repeat his experiences out of respect for him. Three hours, many tears and a bit of shock later I wished I didn’t know. He had never told his story before but it was his truth. It was not a pretty story, but it was reality and I suddenly realized that not supporting the veterans accomplished nothing. The government was the villain and we had missed the point.

 

I have been to the Vietnam War Memorial erected in Washington, D.C. I ran my finger tips over the thousands of names etched into the stone. There were memorials and small tokens everywhere. A mom was holding a little boy who was touching a name and she was talking, I assume, about that soldier.

 

The Iraqi war was illegal. He lied to America and took advantage of the fear that spread through America after we were attacked on 9-11. There were no weapons of mass destruction and we sent so many of our youth to fight in Iraq. One young man was close to me and he was injured. The Army couldn’t actually find him for awhile. He was in Germany and he was having his hand treated.

 

Now, I look around at the severity of injuries that our young men and women have suffered and I am sickened. Why do we always resort to violence and war? We don’t need to. We need to show compassion, acceptance, gratitude, love, kindness. War never fixes anything. It just increases the level of violence. This violence is causing severe head injuries, the loss of arms and / or legs. The loss of dreams and abilities. Severe mental issues such as PTSD and many other mental problems.

 

Wounded Warrior Project and the other groups working to assist veterans and their families are doing important work. So today is Veteran’s Day and I want to say thank you to all vets, male and female. Though I continue to wish that there would be an end to war, thank you for what you have given to America and those of us who live here. Your bravery is an amazing thing to see.

 

Someday, I hope we will no longer need these terrible sacrifices on the part of our young people, our future. One day there will not be wars. Diplomacy will reign and calm, logical and rational thinking will replace greed and power hungry people.

 

So, veterans, Thank you for your sacrifices. I am sorry you had to sacrifice all that you did.

 

 

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Flag unfurled by vets

Flag unfurled by Americans

 

Veteran's Day run held in various places around the country.

Veteran’s Day run held in various places around the country.

 

You have our support

You have our support

 

 

The Beats


I don’t think I have mentioned that I like the “Beat poets”. Allen Ginsberg (1926-1997) is one of my favorites. He was born in Newark, New Jersey. He attended Columbia College, where he studied with Lionel Trilling, Mark Van Doren, and Meyer Shapiro. Jack Kerouac authored “On the Road” and based his character of Carlo Marx on Ginsberg.

 

One of Ginsberg’s most famous poems is “Howl” which he read at the Six Gallery in San Francisco’s North Beach in 1955. He was heckled by a guy in the audience and uttered the battle cry of the Beat movement. The poem was banned.  Everyone wanted to read it.

 

At one reading, a man asked him, “What do you mean, nakedness?” Ginsberg responded by stripping off his clothes in response. Ginsberg did study with Tibetan Buddhist teacher Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche’s maxim, ” First thought, best thought.” to express his philosophy about composition.

 

A Supermarket in California, 1955                  

What thoughts I have of you tonight, Walt Whitman, for I walked down the sidestreets under the trees with a headache self-conscious looking at the full-moon.

In my hungry fatigue, and shopping for images, I went into the neon fruit supermarket, dreaming of your enumerations!

What peaches and what penumbras!  Whole families shopping at night!  Aisles full of husbands!   Wives in the avocados, babies in the tomatoes! — and you, Garcia Lorca, what were you doing down by the watermelons?

 

Allen Ginsberg, the Beat generation

Allen Ginsberg, the Beat generation

 

 

 

 

 

 

I saw you, Walt Whitman, childless, lonely old grubber poking among the meats in the refrigerator and eyeing the grocery boys.

I heard you asking questions of each: Who killed the pork chops?  What price bananas?  Are you my Angel?

I wandered in and out of the brilliant stacks of cans following  you and followed in my imagination by the store detective.

We strode down the open corridors together in our solitary fancy tasting artichokes, processing every frozen delicacy, and never passing the cashier.

 

Where are we going, Walt Whitman?  The doors close in an hour.  Which way does your beard point tonight?

(I touch your book and dream of our odyssey in the supermarket and feel absurd.)

Will we walk all night through solitary streets?  The trees add shade to shade, lights out in the houses, we’ll both be lonely.

Will we stroll dreaming of the lost America of love past blue automobiles in driveways, home to our silent cottage?

Ah, dear friend, graybeard, lonely old courage-teacher what America did you have when Charon quit poling his ferry and you got out on a smoking bank and stood watching the boat disappear on the black waters of Lethe?

1955

 

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Later photo of Allen Ginsberg.

Later photo of Allen Ginsberg.

One Lovely Blog Award


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Many thanks to dgkaye for my most welcome, nomination for this wonderful award.   It touches me deeply that she finds me ‘inspiring’ and I highly recommend that you check her blog — and her books — out!

 

For this blog, the rules are to nominate and notify 15 bloggers, and to tell the 7 things about yourself.

About me:

  1. I will go to great lengths to entertain myself on gloomy Saturday afternoons (look at yesterday’s blog)
  2. I am new to Twitter, but learning
  3. I am allergic to most animals — cats, dogs, especially birds.  Not fish!
  4. I used to raise tropical fish (see #3).  Then I got bored
  5. I have lived on a lake my entire life — I’ve moved to different cities, but always on a lake
  6. When I was young the family had a hunting camp in the Allegheny mountains and we used to go there in the summer time.  It had a well and an outhouse and we used oil-burning lamps.  I wonder if that’s why I am a city girl?
  7. I would love to spend this winter on a tropical beach. (If you’re going to dream, dream big!)

My nominees are:

  1. Inavukic
  2. Jackie Saulomon-Ramirez
  3. YesEvenThisTooWillPass
  4. WritersDream9
  5. SilentlyHeardOnce
  6. KOH
  7. LucidGypsy
  8. Nadia
  9. RoSy
  10. CarolMaeWy
  11. Quiall
  12. lafemmeroar
  13. The Chatter Blog
  14. SpiritHawk
  15. Higher Density
  16. On Dragonfly Wings with Buttercup Tea

Saturday Afternoon Easy LIstening…. The Rebel Way


Here in Cleveland, the afternoon is cloudy, grey and cold.  So, I decided that I needed Music to brighten my spirits.  Then I decided to share some of it with you.

 

I hope you all like it, and that, perhaps, it will make your day a little more fun, a little brighter and a little better, too.

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Kendrick Johnson


lady2soothe's avatarLet Our Voices Echo

Thank you Jim Fisher

Kendrick Johnson

Kendrick Johnson attended Lowndes High School in Valdosta, Georgia. The thin, muscular 17-year-old played on the football and basketball teams. After attending his fourth period class on Thursday, January 10, 2013, Kendrick went missing. The next morning someone discovered the student’s body stuffed upside-down inside a rolled-up wrestling mat that stood on its end in the school gymnasium. He was dead.

Lowndes County Sheriff Chris Prine, in charge of the death scene investigation, quickly concluded that the high school student’s death had been accidental. According to Sheriff Prine, Kendrick must have gone into the mat head-first to retrieve a shoe or some other item. The sheriff theorized that Kendrick got stuck inside the mat and suffocated.

On January 25, 2013, the head of the Valdosta-Lowndes Regional Crime Laboratory where a forensic pathologist had performed the autopsy ten days earlier, informed members of the media that Johnson’s…

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What do Women Think About?


Hello to everyone. I am going to share ideas and thoughts from women who are famous in some way. I was thinking about thinking and decided to share some very good thoughts. What do you think about what these women are thinking about?

 

“One can not be an American by going about saying one is an American. It is necessary to feel America, like America, love America and then work.”   —Georgia O’Keeffe, American artist  (1887-1986

 

“One is happy as a result of one’s own efforts, once one knows the necessary ingredients of happiness — simple tastes, a certain degree of courage, self-denial to a point, love of work, and, above all, a clear conscience. Happiness is no vague dream, of that I now feel certain.”   —George Sand, French writer and novelist  (1804-1876)

 

“I never did anything alone. Whatever was accomplished in this country was accomplished collectively.”  —Golda Meir, Ukrainian-born Israeli leader. (1898-1978)

 

“I never ran my train off the track, and I never lost a passenger.”   —Harriet Tubman, American abolitionist (1820-1913)

 

“Common sense is seeing things as they are; and doing things as they ought to be.”  —Harriet Beecher Stowe, American writer and activist  (1811-1896)

 

“Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all — the apathy of human beings.”  —Helen Keller, American essayist  (1880-1968)

 

“Action indeed is the sole medium of expression for ethics.”  —Jane Addams, American activist  (1860-1935)

 

“Action is the antidote to despair.”  —Joan Baez, American folk singer  (1941-    )

 

“We, the women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.”  —Julia Ward Howe, American activist, founder of Girl Scouts of America  (1819-1910)

 

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.”  —Lucille Ball, American comedienne  (1911-1989)

 

 

Lucille Ball

Lucille Ball

 

 

 

Joan Baez

Joan Baez

 

Jane Addams

Jane Addams

 

 

 

Helen Keller

Helen Keller

 

Harriet Beecher Stowe

Harriet Beecher Stowe

 

 

 

 

 

 

Harriet Tubman

Harriet Tubman

 

Golda Meir

Golda Meir

 

 

George Sand, French writer

George Sand, French writer

 

 

 

 

Georgia O'Keeffe, artist and painter

Georgia O’Keeffe, artist and painter

A Community Garden


JustJan's avatarStaycation Atlanta

IMG_3909Walking along the trail I noticed this community garden, so I thought I would check it out.IMG_3908It is Medlock Park Garden. So cute that a community has come together to plant a garden. IMG_3907So is this Kitchie or just creepy?

IMG_3902I will be interested in what will go in the garden in the spring.

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Khalil Gibran


Khalil Gibran is a writer many of us found in the seventies. He developed almost a cult following. He was born near the Holy Cedars of Lebanon. He and his family moved to America. He went to schools in Boston. The family sent him back to Lebanon to go to college. He later also attended college in Paris. He was a painter and a writer.

 

He wrote of Mother Earth and carried the torch of freedom that sprinkled through his writings. He felt everyone should be free.

 ” I love you, my Brother, wherever you are, whether you kneel in your church, worship in your synagogue or pray in your mosque.”

 

“Are you troubled by the many faiths that Mankind professes? Are you lost in the valley of conflicting beliefs? Do you think that the freedom of heresy is less burdensome than the yoke of submission, and the livery of dissent safer than  the stronghold of acquiescence? If such be the case, then make Beauty your religion, and worship her as your godhead; for she is the visible, manifest and perfect handiwork of God.”

 

” They deem me mad because I will not sell my days for gold; and I deem them mad because they think my days have a price.”

“The truly great man is he who would master no one, and who would be mastered by none. ”

“A bigot is a stone-deaf orator.”

” An exaggeration is a truth that has lost its temper.”

“Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need.”

 

 

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Khalil Gibran

Khalil Gibran

 

 

Khalil Gibran's heart

An Interpretation of Khalil Gibran’s heart by Anita Krizzan

 

 

A Gibran verse

A Gibran verse

 

 

One of Khalil Gibran's books. My favorite.

One of Khalil Gibran’s books. My favorite.

 

Wisdom of Gibran

Wisdom of Gibran

Greek government’s Hitler propaganda video


petrel41's avatarDear Kitty. Some blog

This video is called Hitler’s Women – Leni Riefenstahl – Part 1.

From daily The Guardian in Britain:

Clip of 1936 Berlin Olympics in new Greek tourism film ‘an oversight’

Critics deplore Leni Riefenstahl footage of Hitler games in promotional video – as ministry stresses mistake should not detract from Greek tourism success

Helena Smith in Athens

Thursday 6 November 2014 18.24 GMT

The Greek government has been forced to withdraw a tourism video unveiled in London this week because it contained footage of the infamous 1936 Olympics held in Berlin under Hitler.

The offending clip, which depicted the torch lighting ceremony at the controversial pre-war games, would be “removed immediately” officials said, after being alerted to the gaffe by the Guardian. By last night the video had been taken down from YouTube.

“This was a commemorative video marking 100 years of the Greek tourism organisation, that was…

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