One Lovely Blog


Thank you to LifeCoachWriter for nominating me for this lovely award the One Lovely Blog Award

 

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The rules for this award are a follows:

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7 Things about Me:

  1. I am a Taurus
  2. I love to grow flowers, especially roses and irises
  3. Faeries live in my flower garden
  4. I truly HATE winter
  5. I hope by next winter to live in the south
  6. I love peaches, red delicious apple, raspberries, watermelon, cantaloupe and mango
  7. I love to cook and eat artichokes

 

My nominations are:

  1.  insaneowl
  2. Xena
  3. Graleview
  4. Inavukic
  5. Dr. Rex
  6. Petite Magique
  7. WillowDot21
  8. The Poetry Channel
  9. A Thursdays Child
  10. Ms Vee
  11. Elkat
  12. IrinaDim
  13. Gigi
  14. Marktoner1
  15. Sue Dreamwalker

 

Silence! We are Voting.


From the University of San Francisco (http://www.usfca.edu/fac-staff/hancock/pol204/history.htm)

 

1787

The passage of the U.S. Constitution giving white male property owners age 21 and over the right to vote.

1807 – 1843

Series of acts that changed voting requirments so that all white men 21 and older could vote.

1870

The 15th Amendment guaranteed the right to vote to all men that were 21 or older regardless of race or ethnic background.

1920

The 19th Amendment gave women age 21 and older the right to vote.

1964

The 24th Amendment made it illegal for states to charge poll tax to voters.

1965

The Voting Rights Act authorized the federal government to take over registration of voters in areas where state officials had regularly prevented blacks and other minorities from registering to vote or cast their ballots through usage of literacy tests, grandfather clauses, and intimidation tactics. This Act enforced provisions previously guaranteed in the 13th, 14th, and 15th Amendments almost a century earlier.

1971

The 26th Amendment lowered the voting age across the nation to 18.

1982

The Voting Rights Act Amendments extended right to vote guarantees given in the 1965 legislation. Further provisions for Americans with disabilities, voters not able to read and write, and those not fluent in English were added to insure their freedoms.

1993

The National Voter Registration Act (Motor Voter) expanded the opportunity for convenient voter registration for every person of voting age by increasing the number of active government agencies serving as registries. The departments of Safety, Health, human Services, Mental Health and Retardation, and Veteran’s Affairs are required to include voter registration applications with their own department’s forms. Other government offices such as libraries, post offices, county clerk offices, and the Registrar of Deeds will also have voter forms available to the public.

1994

The Tennessee Early Voting Act replaced the previous absentee voting system used for the state. Tennesseans now have a period of 15 days in which to vote early before the actual election day without declaring a reason for this early casting of votes. Voters using this opportunity may vote at their county election office or any one of its satellite locations in that county during their posted hours of operation.

 

Vote and we become stronger and the rich hold us  and our children and grandchildren.

Vote and we become stronger and if you stay home and don’t vote, the rich hold us and our children and grandchildren captive.Tuesday is election day. Get out and vote. It is the right and responsible thing to do.

 

 

From the ACLU  (https://www.aclu.org/timeline-history-voting-rights-act)

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Tuesday is Election Day!

Tuesday is Election Day!

Your vote
                                                                         VOTE! Be heard.
Each American needs to vote on Tuesday! It is your right and responsibility

Each American needs to vote on Tuesday! It is your right and responsibility

For my contemporaries


It’s Saturday Night, the holiday is over, and I thought I would just take us back in time a few years, to when life was very different than it is now.

 

We were different, too.  We were more innocent.  For many of us, music filled our lives.

 

Here’s some of the music that filled mine, and whether you liked it or not, yours.  I wasn’t a teenager then, but I was in my twenties, and oh, would I dance…

And I’m glad I did.

 

Happy Hallowe’en (nearly)


The kids my neighborhood are out Trick or Treating tonight, so I thought I’d do a little early celebrating

 

Enjoy!

 

 

For All My Artists…and You are ALL Artists…


It’s happened to every one of us — we present something we’ve created to someone whose opinion matters to us and hear “that’s not very good” or “oh.  That’s nice” in the condescending voice we all know and hate to so much.

 

I’ve found another Ted Talk by David Kelley about the process of being creative, even after we’ve been told we’re not.
Please keep it in mind the next time you’re told something that tries to shut your creativity down.  Because we are all creative, in our own ways.  Every single one of us.

 

Including you.

 

Namaste,

Barbara

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The Art of…


I would like to propose the idea that thinking is an art. It is an art in the same way as is writing, photography, textile making, composing a song, painting, drawing, playing a piano or any other medium.It is a purposeful activity over which we exercise some control. Control is the key word. Thinking is not always conscious. The evidence that the unconscious mind can join in purposeful mental activity is overwhelming. For example: when you come up with the perfect answer just when you stop working on the problem. Your conscious mind turns to other matters and yet you receive the answer.

 

Thinking is any mental activity that helps formulate or solve a problem, make a decision, or fulfill a desire to understand. It is searching for answers, and finding meaning.

 

I believe, as do others, that our schools don’t teach our children how to perform the art of thinking. Thinking and not just experience a reflux of information is very different. With so much emphasis on testing, our children know facts and yet can not think through the facts to make good decisions for their own lives and for others. Without the actual thinking, it is easier for governments and religions to just move us along on the path they want us to take. The one that best serves their agenda.

 

Thinking in terms of tradition, often there is a basis for accomplishing certain activities. It is always a good thing to learn from the past. But there must be a balance between traditional activities and thinking about a better action or answer. Factual knowledge does not always guarantee success in solving a problem.

 

I am sharing this poem not because it is emotional, or better than any I have read here on WordPress. It does teach a lesson and I am sure that each of us will come up with parallel situations.

 

“One day through the primeval wood

A calf walked home as good calves should;

But made a trail all bent askew,

A crooked trail as all calves do.

 

Since then three hundred years have fled,

And I infer the calf”s dead.

But still he left behind his trail,

And thereby hangs my moral tale.

The trail was taken up next day

By a lone dog that passed that way,

And then a wise bellwether sheep

Pursued the trail o’ver hill and glade

Through those old woods a path was made.

 

And many men wound in and out

And dodged and dodged and bent about

And uttered words of righteous wrath

Because t’was such a crooked path;

But still they followed—but do not laugh—

The first migrations of that calf,

And through this winding woodway stalked

Because he wobbled when he walked.

 

This forest path became a lane

That bent and turned and turned again;

This crooked lane became a road,

Where many a poor horse with his load

Toiled on beneath the burning sun,

And traveled some three miles in one.

And thus a century and a half

They trod the footsteps of that calf.

 

The years passed on in swiftness fleet,

The road became a village street;

And thus, before men were aware,

A city’s crowded thoroughfare.

And soon the central street was this

Of a renowned metropolis;

And men two centuries and a half

Trod in the footsteps of that calf.

Each day a hundred thousand rout

Followed this zigzag calf about

And o’er his crooked journey went

The traffic of a continent.

 

One hundred thousand men were led

By one calf near three centuries dead.

They followed one hundred years a day;

For thus such reverence is lent

To well-established precedent.”

—Sam Walter Foss

 

Sometimes, tradition is nothing more than “well established” precedent. Sometimes the best answers are found within our subconscious; when we develop the art of thinking.

 

 

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The Thinking Man, Cleveland Museum of Art. Cleveland, Ohio

The Thinking Man, Cleveland Museum of Art. Cleveland, Ohio

Is Gratitude Trivial?


I saw the Neurologist this morning. We had an unusual conversation. We talked about gratitude. I learned some interesting facts. Most of our conversation was taking place around the concepts of past, present and future. They are doing more and more research on the way the mind works.

 

I think this is a very important direction for neurology  to go into. So little is really known about how our minds work. How do each of us learn best?  How do we survive trauma and violence? What can we learn about how to deal with mental illness and the part it plays in violence in our world? Why are some people drawn to violence and some completely repulsed.

 

They know some victims of violence, have a brain that rewrites itself. It goes around the areas damaged by the pain, trauma and fear in the past. But do they all rewrite the same? Probably not, because some abused children become serial killers and some are good citizens who care about others.

 

Writing is one thing that scientists suggest as a way to deal with the traumas in our lives. When you sit down to write and put pen to paper, what comes out is the real truth and sometimes what we aren’t aware of on a conscious level. Free writing is putting pen to paper and just write without stopping. Write for thirty minutes. If you hit a block, write stuck, stuck, stuck until the words begin to flow again.

 

Scientists are doing case studies about going back to basics. To start at the very beginning. To go into a meditative state. Breathe in and out slowly and put your awareness on how the breath flows, how your heart is beating and how your lungs are taking in air and pushing used air out. As you finish the outbreath and are beginning to take your next in breath say thank you with an open heart. The thank you is for the fact that your body works. There may be parts that are not working right, but the basics work. Your body will take you where you need to go. Even if it constantly hurts, it is still working and you are here. So thank you is all that is required from you. It is pretty easy, yet it effects your mind and how your subconscious works.

 

The subconscious mind lets go of pain, trauma and fear. The future becomes brighter and manageable. The scientists have determined that chromosomes elongate and we begin to feel younger. I don’t think any of us would mind feeling younger.

Namaste to everyone.

 

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Feeling a little bit younger is good.

Feeling a little bit younger is good.

 

 

A Reminder


Sometimes, a song can remind you of something. Remind you that the way the World is today, and the way it will be tomorrow, is up to us.

This is a song by Duran Duran , written as a reaction to the attack on 9-11.  It reminds us that there was a lesson learned that day, and a decision about what that lesson should have taught us.  It’s a decision we, each of us, make anew each day: how we will treat each other, and how we will help others to a better life, so this sort of tragedy does not have to happen again.

 

What decision will you make?

 

 

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Point of No Return

(words and lyrics Taylor, Taylor, Taylor, LeBon, Rhodes)

The random aspects of our lives
Come together once in a while
So blinding and decidedly
Naivete falls from our eyes
And we’ll not regain
As we watch the tower falling down

Maybe things can change
Only if you want
Maybe things can change
Only if you want

You know, you know there’s no avoiding
The lesson to be learned
The lesson to be learned
The point of no return
You say “What if?”
But can you live it?
It’s all that we deserve
It’s all that we deserve
The point of no return

Don’t blame yourself
Don’t blame me
But we’re the ones
Who can feed the ground
So this poison tree, don’t let it grow again
And from this glass and broken earth
There is a way that can be built
A better life for everyone

Maybe things can change
Only if you want
Maybe things can change
Only if you want

A Desperate World


No matter where you live on our planet, the countries are filled with hatred, selfishness, a lack of compassion and empathy. People who are marginalized in their countries are angry and want change. They lack the education or the will to use positive tools to bring justice and peace to the world. Guns, hatred, meanness, rifles, bombs, and attacking perfect strangers will not make your life better or happier.

Every person wants to make their life better.  You need to do this. You can do this. You don’t need to cause pain and suffering if that is what is in your life. Your life can be improved. Many people have done just that.

 

The desperate  state of the world calls us to action. Each of us has a responsibility to try to help at the deeper level of our common humanity. Unfortunately, humanity is too often sacrificed in defense of ideology. This is absolutely wrong.

 

Political systems should actually benefit human beings, but, like money, they can control us instead of work for us. Humankind must seek harmony among nations, ideologies, cultures, ethnic groups, and economic and political  systems.When we truly recognize the oneness of all humankind, our motivation to find peace will grow stronger.

 

In the deepest sense we are really sisters and brothers, so we must share one another’s suffering. Mutual respect, trust, and concern for one another’s welfare are our best hope for lasting world peace.

 

Of course, national leaders have a special responsibility in this area, but every individual must also take the initiative, regardless of religious belief or political affiliation. Just by being human, by seeking to gain happiness and avoid suffering, you are a citizen of this planet. We are all responsible for creating a better future.

 

To achieve a friendly attitude, a warm heart, respect for the rights of others, and concern for their welfare, you must train the mind. All forms of meditation cultivate an attitude of compassion and calm. It creates a state of mind particularly crucial in human society today for its power to yield true harmony among nations, races, and people from diverse religious, political and economic systems.  WE ARE ALL ONE!

 

 

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My neighborhood pond, Autumn.   Photographed and copyrighted by Barbara Mattio 2013

At my development.Photographed and copyrighted by Barbara Mattio 2014

 

 

What the world needs now

What the world needs now

Breaking News


I had to share this with all of you. There has been a school shooting north of Seattle. I hope the NRA and the GOP are happy. More of our precious children suffering and being frightened by violence. If you want a gun, leave America. Your happiness is not as important as the lives of innocent American adults and children. An active shooter made it inside and began shooting. They know two students have been shot. They are being airlifted to a hospital in Seattle. The shooting took place in the cafeteria. They feel the shooter is at large. It just happened and the police are there and parents are being notified. I will follow up as they announce more information.