Pampering Yourself

“Self-nurture is not about being selfish. It is about self-care.”
—-Alice D. Domar PHD

Yes, I am advocating self-pampering. For men or women, small steps of pampering yourself may feel wrong or frivolous. In 2012, we run from one task to another. We race through the day giving everything little pieces of ourselves. We spend most of our lives burnt out and empty. This is not the way The One wants us to experience this life. We are drowning in deadlines, insomnia, bills, politics, stress eating and kids breaking curfew. We almost need to be long distance sprinters.

Athletes have something we do not have. They have trainers and sports medicine and adoring fans. They lack our total exhaustion, feeling unappreciated, unsatisfied with life in general. This is a sure way to lose touch with ourselves, some people don’t even know who they are. They are fractured and left with nothing to give because they have nothing left inside. Society encourages and rewards us when we ignore the signs and symptoms that we need nurturing too. Pushing through, giving it all to your team or manager ends up making us sick. Being sick just pushes the circle around again.

Pampering is recuperative. It feeds the soul. It encourages the pleasant, happy, interesting and caring person inside to come out again. Being on vacation is good because you begin to get your balance back. You regain your spontaneity and flexibility. If it is raining, you read a book. If you are tired, you take a nap. You grin more often and choose to walk instead of taking the stairs or elevator. The strident, pushy, irritable you has gone and you actually like who you are. Pampering in this spirit is essential for human beings to maintain their joy and bliss. Sometimes, you just need to turn away from the needs of the world until you have regained your balance. You are now promoting your own physical and emotional health.


I like to rub my temples with an essential oil, and to keep a fragrant sachet under my pillow at night. I also use a sound machine when I can’t turn off my mind and sleep much deeper and awake refreshed. So remember self-pampering is medicinal and necessary for the well-being of our lives.

Sculpture garden, Windsor, Ontario Photo by Barbara Mattio

17 thoughts on “Pampering Yourself

  1. this is so needed for each of us. To slow down, to be, to breathe, to allow silence to be our friend. Thanks for this gracious reminder.

  2. Thanks for the much needed reminder to take care of ourselves – OH SO IMPORTANT!!! Happy Wednesday:)

  3. carolisle says:

    Pamper great Idea you mean more then a quick shower don’t you? Thanks for the reminder ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. Yes, yes, yes…!
    I do so love when someone else pampers me too; like a massage.. Ahhhhh ๐Ÿ˜‰

  5. heya..thanks for the post and great tips…i think that hard work is the most important aspect of getting success. lista de emails lista de emails lista de emails lista de emails lista de emails

  6. BJ Borer says:

    Taking care of ourselves, what a great idea. I was just talking with my sister about that very thing. She thinks she has to keep going, never taking a minute to enjoy her life. I try to tell her it will catch up with her one day. Thanks for reminding me how important it is to take care of ourselves. I sometimes feel I need someone to give me permission to rest, relax, enjoy the garden I work so hard at. If I don’t take care of myself, who will take care of my garden?

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