The Dalai Lama and Peace and Kindness


As many of you know, the current Dalai Lama is the reincarnation of the previous Dalai Lama. He is the secular and spiritual head of the Tibetan people. When the Dalai Lama was  fifteen years of age, the Chinese government invaded Tibet and the young Dalai Lama was smuggled out of the country into India. I have had the privilege of meeting the Dalai Lama and the experience of being in his amazing radiance and energy. Even before I met him, I had read the story  of his escape and exile many years before and was fascinated by the Tibetan people, their Tibetan Buddhism, and the Dalai Lama. Some people continue to live in Tibet, many more followed the Dalai Lama into exile. Some live in various countries around the world. Like other marginalized peoples, they have become wanderers on our planet.

 

It is important for us to recognize that this insightful, compassionate, humorous, and marvelous person rose from Tibetan culture. When he looks into someone’s eyes, he sees their soul. In his own words, he says that any time he meets a stranger, he accepts them as a friend. He says we have all met before and as human beings share the same basic goals. We all seek happiness and do not want suffering.

 

Peace begins within each of us. We can choose to erupt in anger and violence or, if you have peace of mind, you can find happiness even under the most difficult circumstances. This shows the impact of a good mental attitude.

 

We are all born helpless. Without a parent’s kindness we could not survive, much less proper. When children grow up in constant fear, with no one to rely on, they suffer their whole lives. Because the minds of small children are very delicate, their need for kindness is particularly obvious.

 

Adult human beings need kindness too. If someone greets me with a nice smile, and expresses a genuinely friendly attitude, I appreciate it very much. They instantly gladden my heart.

 

Many of our problems stem from attitudes like putting ourselves first at all costs. I know from my own experience that it is possible to change these attitudes and improve the human mind.

 

Today, much of the world is now connected by a web of electronic communications. Yesterday, there was terrorism in Canada and here in America we knew immediately. China is trying to intimidate its neighbors and again we know and our government responds. Our twenty-first century technology has made nations and their people heavily dependent upon one another.

 

So hate, genocide, war and other forms of violence are felt around the world, not just in the country in which they occur. We must stop all wars and nuclear weapons. The Dalai Lama has visited Hiroshima, Japan, where the first atomic bomb was dropped. This must never happen again. He spoke to survivors and their families and his heart was touched. Thousands and thousands of people dead in a matter of moments. War creates much pain and desolation, yet millions of dollars, or whatever currency is in use in other countries, are spent on weapons of mass destruction.

 

The only way to achieve lasting peace is through mutual trust, respect, love and kindness. Attempts by global powers to dominate one another through competition in armaments—whether nuclear, chemical, biological, or conventional—is counterproductive. External peace is impossible without inner peace.

 

 

 

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A relic found in the Japanese cities bombed by America to end WWII

A relic found in the Japanese cities bombed by America to end WWII

 

Achieve peace with understanding.

Achieve peace with understanding.

 

 

NYT headlines when atomic bomb was dropped. Many thousands killed instantly.

NYT headlines when atomic bomb was dropped. Many thousands killed instantly.

 

There is no Plan B or Planet B

There is no Plan B or Planet B

 

 

Beauty of LIfe Award


 

 

 

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Because of the importance of Human Beings taking action to save our planet, Mother Earth, I have designed this award to thank all the bloggers who through their blogs and their efforts show that they love and respect Mother Earth, and do what they can to save our precious and beautiful Planet.  This award is a reminder that there is no Plan B, and no Planet B.

The Rules have to do with you and your conscience:  when awarded this award, try to something good for the Planet every week.

Those who receive this award will be the bloggers who have brought to light the necessity of saving our Planet, and who encourage others to help in this important fight, through their words, art and deeds.

The very first recipients of this award are:

  1. Victo Dolore
  2. Jackie Saulmon-Ramirez
  3. AB
  4. Mark Bialczak
  5. Lady Pink Rose
  6. Toemailer
  7. Maryam
  8. Danaiana
  9. Bluerock/Debrazone
  10. Quiall
  11. MsTranquility
  12. Grumpygorman
  13. Eartlhyradiance
  14. Karen Wan
  15. Mihrank
  16. Lobetero
  17. Lilly
  18. Abuse Ends when you Love Yourself
  19. Sue Dreamwalker
  20. Moorbey
  21. Chocolate Vent
  22. Maxima
  23. Nandini
  24. Gillswriting
  25. Soul of a Gypsy
  26. Friendly Fairytales
  27. Charles1958
  28. Danicopiche
  29. Sadie
  30. Busy Mind Thinking
  31. belsbror
  32. Cassidy Frazee
  33. Susan Marie Malloy
  34. RoSy

A Big Heart


The Big Heart

 

Big heart,

wide as a watermelon,

but wise as birth,

there is so much abundance

in the people I have:

Max, Lois, Joe, Louise,

Joan, Marie, Dawn,

Arlene, Father Dunne,

and all in their short lives

give to me repeatedly,

in the way the sea

places its many fingers on the shore,

again and again

and they know me,

they help me unravel,

they listen with ears made of conch shells,

they speak back with the wine of the best region.

They are my staff.

They comfort me.

 

They hear how

the artery of my soul has been severed

and soul is spurting out upon them,

bleeding on them,

Messing up their clothes,

dirtying their shoes.

And God is filling me,

though there times of doubt

as hollow as the Grand Canyon,

still God is filling me

He/she is giving me the thoughts of dogs,

the spider inits intricate web,

the sun

in all its amazement,

and a slain ram

that is the glory,

the mystery of great cost,

and my heart,

which is very big,

I promise it is very large,

a monster of sorts,

takes it all in—

all in comes the fury of love.

—Anne Sexton

 

 

“Too many things are occurring for even a big heart to hold”

—From an essay by W. B. Yeats

 

 

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May Peace Prevail

May Peace Prevail

Tears of Joy


 

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This is award is for ALL my wonderful WordPress Family and Friends.

Thank you so much for all your support, every one of you!  Please, take this Award and proudly display the Tears of Joy I shed for having each of you in my life.

 

Namaste!

 

Barbara

Versatile Blogger Award


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Much thanks to Megan Elizabeth for nominating for this award.  It is always an honor and very humbling to be nominated, particularly for this award.

The philosophy behind the award:

“When you consider nominating a fellow blogger for the Versatile Blogger Award, consider the quality of the writing, the uniqueness of the subjects covered, the level of love displayed in the words on the virtual page. Or, of course, the quality of the photographs and the level of love displayed in the taking of them. Honor those bloggers who bring something special to your life whether every day or only now and then!”

Here’s the rules:

If you are nominated, you’ve been awarded the Versatile Blogger award.

  • Thank the person who gave you this award. That’s common courtesy.
  • Include a link to their blog. That’s also common courtesy — if you can figure out how to do it.
  • Next, select 15 blogs/bloggers that you’ve recently discovered or follow regularly. ( I would add, pick blogs or bloggers that are excellent!)
  • Nominate those 15 bloggers for the Versatile Blogger Award — you might include a link to this site.
  • Finally, tell the person who nominated you 7 things about yourself.

7 Things about me:

  1. I am cold.  I am always cold.  I never took the thermal blanket off my bed, all summer long.
  2. I was born with jet black hair, and now I’m a blond — by choice! (Total vanity, I admit)
  3. I love to read poetry and I love bloggers who write poetry, but I do not write any poetry  myself
  4. My very favorite place to visit is the French Quarter in New Orleans.  I love the sights, the smells and the tastes of the neighborhoods.  I find it stimulating and exhilarating
  5. My late husband once said that I had more dichotomies within me than any other human being he ever met.  It was actually a compliment!
  6. I love music, most kinds of music.  I love classic rock, blues & jazz, zydeco, ballet & opera, classical, new age, pop, and thanks to my 9 grand children, hip hop (sometimes)
  7. Even though I did not become a feminist until the 1970’s, as a child I was very aware of the injustice and hypocrisy in the world, and I loathed it.  Always.  Still do.

My 15 nominations for wonderful, Versatile Bloggers I cannot get enough of:

  1. Dr. Rex
  2. Hunt for Truth
  3. Petrel 41
  4. Petchary
  5. Inavukic
  6. Crowing Crone Joss
  7. SeaAngel4444
  8. Ivonprefontaine
  9. Xena
  10. Aquileana
  11. Modern Philosopher
  12. Jane Thorne
  13. D. Parker
  14. Rajagopal
  15. Michelinewalker
  16. Hit & Run
  17. Dani Lynn
  18. Risinghawk
  19. The Fifth Column

There are so many WONDERFUL Bloggers in my WordPress Family, and I wish I could give you ALL an award today because you are bright and funny and talented and dedicated and supportive and loyal and passionate.  Perhaps someday…

 

 

On the Journey to Happiness


I found this lovely discussion on Happiness by Buddhist monk, photographer and author Matthieu Ricard on the TED Talks channel on YouTube.

 

He presents an interesting perspective that I think is helpful to consider on this Journey we are all on, ultimately, to Happiness.

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Each moment of happiness is a gift from the Universe Lake Erie Sunset Photograph and Copyright by Barbara Mattio 2012

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The Heart of Mother Earth


At the heart of the landscape of Mother Earth, there is a feeling of belonging. Belonging is the basic truth of our existence. We belong here. Life belongs here. At the heart of gratefulness we also find an expression of belonging. When we say “Thank you” we really are saying “We belong together.” Many people don’t want to be connected or interdependent. Many of us don’t want to be obliged.

 

In a healthy society that is exactly what we seek: mutual obligations. Everyone is obliged to everyone and everything else, we all belong together, we are of each other. In this awareness we are freed from self’preoccupation—and only then, emptied of self, can we be filled with thanks.

 

” Love wholeheartedly, be surprised, give thanks and praise—then you will discover the fullness of your life.”   —Brother David Steindl-Rast

 

Within this human impulse to gratitude flows the vast cycles of universal reciprocity—for everything that is taken, something has to be given in return. You can’t merely breath in, or only breath out. Death would find you. Life is not giving or taking, but it is giving and taking.

 

Universal Belonging

 

We give away our thanks to the earth

which gives us our home.

We give away our thanks to the rivers and lakes

which give away their water.

We give away our thanks to the trees

which give away fruit and nuts…

 

All beings on earth, the trees, the animals, the wind

and the rivers give away to one another

so all is in balance…

—Dolores La Chapelle

 

 

I will sing of the well-founded Earth,

Mother of all, eldest of all beings.

She feeds all creatures that are in the world,

all that go upon the goodly land,

all that are in the paths of the seas,

and all that fly,

all these are fed of her store.

 

Hail Earth, mother of the gods,

freely bestow upon me for this my song

that cheers the heart!

—Homeris Hymns XXX, adapted by Elizabeth Roberts

 

 

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Awakening

in a moment of peace

I give thanks

to the source of all peace

 

as I set forth

into the day

the birds sing

with new voices

and I listen

with new ears

and give thanks.

 

You can see forever

when the vision is clear

in this moment

each moment

I give thanks.
—Harriet Kofalk

Morning Salutation

Morning Salutation

 

Smokey Mountains. Photographed and copyrighted by Barbara Mattio 2010

Smokey Mountains. Photographed and copyrighted by Barbara Mattio 2010

 

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Welcome!


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Those of you who have visited the site before will notice that things look a bit different. I’ve made some changes to make it easier for people to find the content they are looking for here — basically, the blogposts that I wrote and the blogposts that I repost, because the author has something to say that I find interesting or important.

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I try to remind people that ALL people are equal, regardless of gender, race, religion or spiritual path (or lack thereof), sexual orientation or identity, nationality, creed,  color, economic status or any of the other arbitrary and political attributes we use to stereotype other human beings.  There are differences in all of us that make us individuals, but basically, we are all Stardust and deserving of love and consideration from and for each other.

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You can find my posts by clicking on the “The IdealisticRebel Says..” button on the menu on the left. You can find posts I’ve reblogged by clicking on “Rebel Recommends”.

Previous posts, which include both my blogs and things I’ve reblogged, are under the heading “Archived”.

I am also a member of the wonderful group Artists4Peace. If you would like to see the articles which I have contributed to this site, click the Artists4Peace label in the menu. To go to the Artists4Peace site itself, click the Artists4Peace icon in the sidebar.

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A Temporary Inconvenience for a Permanent Improvement


Hello, everyone.

I am making some changes to my blog, which are taking a little time.

There may be some glitches in the process, but I hope to be back up and running by tomorrow night.

Keep your fingers crossed :~)

Namaste

Barbara